Hi Diane,
It's hard to believe but Oreo has not only made himself visible to me but has been really friendly, even rolling over for belly rubs. I think it's because i'm coming in thru the garage instead of the front door just like you do so he doesn't perceive me as a stranger. Snowball has been his usual self. Neither of them was interested in the feather pole toy but Snowball enjoyed chasing the little foam balls. We are expecting snow thru tonight so not sure how early i'll get there tomorrow. It's supposed to warm up so hopefully by lunch time at the latest.